When all seems to fail there still lies possibilities. Having the courage and determination to keep trying goes a long way. If you want something really bad then nothing should be able to stand in you way.
Recently I applied to become an RA on campus, and going in I knew it was going to be hard, as one of the major requirement was to have lived on campus for at least one semester, I have always been a commuter- so we know how much I fulfill that particular requirement. Anyways, this was something I really wanted and nothing was about to stop me.
So, I applied, took off from work the Saturday for Group Process day, went and thoroughly enjoyed the experience. I knew this was a narrow chance for me to get in, but I wanted the initial experience of what could become a reality. The Monday following Group Process day I did my interview. It was scary at first as I couldn’t find the office (off course of all the days), it was rather windy and rainy outside, but eventually I got there, on the dot- though I wasn’t pleased with that, there was nothing I could do then but prove to my interviewer that I was qualified and ready to give all that it takes to become a great RA, and that I did.
The week to follow seemed to be the longest, not to mention the day we were to get ‘THAT’ email. I constantly checked and was irritated by every other email that came in, but finally at 5pm that evening, standing in Wal-Mart the email came. I waited 5 minutes to open it as all my previous works flashed back to memory, I knew I was a good fit for the position, I know I can do the job and I know I wasn’t about to start thinking negatively. So I opened it and that first word ‘CONGRATULATIONS’ had me burst out ‘WOW’ in Wal-Mart, that’s all I could say, wow. Off course people started looking at me funny but there was nothing anyone could do at that moment to stifle my joy.
All that being said, one must have persistence to go forward in life. Though I lacked the semester long experience on campus, I had a background that could supplement for that, I didn’t have to live on campus since I lived 5 minutes away from campus, but to have the experience of an RA was my desire, so I got involved in other programs that could prepare me for this and it sure worked out for my benefit.
So if you’re not sure what you want to do on campus, or how to go about doing it, talk to someone, there is always someone there to help you, and you can always shoot me an email and I can help you, you have to realize theses experiences employers look for when you apply for a job and it would be sad if you missed out on a job because you weren’t involved in school when there is so much going on.