lightining settles when you speak.

In situations where I find things not going my way, I tend to blame myself first. How can I change to make the situation better? What did I do? What can I do? And today, I realized that sometimes it isn't me at all. Sometimes, it's others and their decisions and actions. I need to feel strong in who I am as a person and continue on the way I see fit. Other people need to sort out who they are and what they're doing and if that means right now, we don't mesh, then that's what it means.